Hey you! Welcome.
I’m Shirley, your self-compassion guide. Through soul-centered meditations & journeys and grounded intuitive tarot readings I support you in (re)connecting with your true essence.
Hey you! Welcome.
I’m Shirley, your self-compassion guide. Through soul-centered meditations & journeys and grounded intuitive tarot readings I support you in (re)connecting with your true essence.
Self-compassion
Self-compassion is a gentle tool that functions as a bridge to your core by utilising your experiences in the here and now to connect with all parts of you. It helps you to drift along with the waves of your inner and outer world. By checking in with and opening your heart to your experiences you'll be able to discern between them and your essence with greater ease. This helps you to distance yourself from the notion that you’re not good enough right now. Self-compassion serves as a steady access point to your magical, powerful and radiant core.
Intuitive tarot
A grounded intuitive tarot reading is a beautiful way to check in with your essence and let yourself be guided by your inner compass. You’ll gain a better understanding of your own inner waters and how they might be able to flow with even greater ease. This will open the door to more confidence and decisiveness on your soul’s path. The 78 tarot cards represent the processes we go through as human beings and every card brings their own invitation to help us make the subconscious conscious and connect with our inner wisdom.
Latest blogposts
The first step in taking better care of yourself
The first step in taking better care of yourself is ... realising that all your past efforts already have been pure acts of self-love.
Do you really have to love yourself first to be able to love someone else?
Do you really have to love yourself first to be able to love someone else? Fuck no! It just contributes to your self-love journey.
What is unconditional love? And more importantly: what is it not?
What is unconditional love? In this blogpost you'll find a simple check to figure out if your love is unconditional.
<< These blogposts are in the process of being translated into English – thank you for your patience! >>
''You name it, I dance(d) with it''
Chronic pain, illnesses, depression, childhood trauma, an eating disorder and – of course – being a highly sensitive person (definitely the best of all, but still difficult to navigate at times). All those challenges and, above all, everything I tried to ‘fix’ them, caused the connection with my essence to dissipate more and more.
When I was finally done with being shackled by and identifying myself with all the boxes I was put in, I jumped into the ocean of personal development – where I subsequently almost drowned.
And even though a big chunk of this journey was still a search for ‘better’, it also led me to self-compassion: an extraordinary tool to reconnect with your soul and let your true self shine again.
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