Self-compassion: a gentle & grounded approach to coming home to your true self.

Tune in with your inner compass.

Come back to your true self.

Rediscover & unfold your wings.

Let’s cultivate more self-compassion together!

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What is self-compassion?

With the practice of self-compassion you build a bridge to your true self, by learning to drift along with the waves of your inner and outer world. Welcoming your experiences without judgement creates a deeper connection with yourself, your life and everyone around you. This makes room for a more authentic & happier life in which you know who you are AND can always find your way back to yourself.

How do I use tarot?

The 78 archetypal cards support you in a gentle and grounded way to find and open the door to self-compassion – over and over and over again. Tuning in with your inner compass using the tarot brings you closer to yourself & your authentic path, and contributes to finding peace, clarity and trust. My method in working with the tarot is solely insightful and focused on the here and now.

Shirley de Koster

Hi, it's me, Shirley!

A few years ago I decided to stop making my life any harder than it already was. And since then my life has been perfect.

Okay, that's a lie.

But thanks to my self-compassion practice I do get closer every day.

Nope, that’s not true either.

I DO know myself better than ever before (don’t we all?), I know what does and doesn’t work for me (most of the time) and I definitely know how to find my way back to my true self after I've taken a (usually involuntary) break from her. And this is what has made my life so much more easeful & joyful.

You want this, too. And that’s why you’re here. Welcome!